Inspiration

It is family and our friends who help us see ourselves sometimes, find expression for our thoughts, bring that everlasting smile, that splash of color, give flight to our fantasies and rediscover the beauty of what lies inside us. This is for all the people who have touched my life, been there, brought happiness and made each moment a time to treasure. I hope we blossom this into something wonderful :).

Saturday, February 5, 2011

My best friend's wedding

The little things you do for me
And nobody else
Make me feel good
The little things you do for me
Making me smile
When no one else could
That’s why
I like to sit next to you
And hear your mad stories
I know they’re not true
And I like that we share
A secret or two
Together.
As I look at her, still like a little girl, excited as she gets her mehndi put on, delightfully tells me about her dresses and shopping, looking forward to every moment, I am reminded of the days when we were together. “Catching” the seat next to me for her, giggling away at little jokes, staying up till midnight to wish her Happy Birthday and waiting excitedly to cover her face with cake, and drench her with rasgolla syrup (IIMC tradition). Rocking away all night at Joka parties – being the first to be on the dance floor, and the last to get off. She would come banging on my door, making sure I don’t miss any party. Sitting together for hours in our dorm room, chatting away, about anything and everything, laughing, crying, secrets to share, and love to give. Those were beautiful times. Once you graduate, you treasure even a few hours together, and it seems then, time was endless. Even now, she is the same. We play dress up, figuring out what to wear, matching everything, sharing bangles, bindis, tops and still have that college girl feeling when we meet! Movie plans, treat outings, I can be myself with her. Always smiling, she can brighten up anyone’s day.

As she starts on a new life, my heart goes out to her to wish her all the happiness in the world. May God bless you. All the best for a beautiful life ahead!

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Ahmedabad

This is heaven, as I know it.

I have been brought back to a world where there is still warmth, love, caring and kindness. Where feelings matter, people are honest and friendly. Where there is still trust, goodness and respect for values. Family is important, morals are strong, there is positivity, spirituality, people live simply, and life has happiness and meaning. God's own land.

It started off with a beautiful campus, a class full of bright, energetic students, an action packed festival, a dance workshop, a rocking party and a magnificent day out with the best of friends.

That was just the beginning - the start of my rendezvous with this amazing place called Ahmedabad. Nestled deep in history and culture, the entire experience has been a treat to the eye and to the palette. We went on a day out to old Ahmedabad to try out a traditional Gujarati thaali. So many colors, so many flavours, all in one! First came a Dhokla-like snack, Dhoodiya. That was followed by a riot of colour with small helpings of various dishes, most of whose names I don't even know. My favourites were Ondhyu ( a mixed vegetable with dumplings) and Raajma. Also Gatte ki sabzi, which is a Rajasthani influence. Cute rotis and puris to go with everything. Khichudi with ghee and later moong daal ka halwa. Chach (like lassi) topped it all off. What a feast! Gurh (jaggery) along with the meal adds its own sweet aroma.
We then stepped out to embrace the hustle and bustle of old Ahmedabad, the fort walls, and the buzzing market all around. Pretty handicrafts everywhere - puppets, bandhni, pottery, glass, paintings, you name it. I soak up the warm sunshine and the light breezy air. The weather is very pleasant at this time of the year in January. I feel a spring in my step, and delight at the atmosphere around me. A few steps away is the Siddi Syed mosque with the famous stone carved jaali, which is the symbol adopted for IIMA. An ever-growing tree, spreading its knowledge far and wide. We hop into an auto and the next thing we know, we are speeding away towards the serenity of the Sabarmati Ashram.

A tribute to the Mahatma. The greatest of men, the symbol of self sacrifice, love for humanity, selfless service with the vision, will and determination to achieve swaraj for the millions. A personality that inspires respect. It means something to be able to stir up a country with its numerous divides and unite people to work together for a common goal. It takes courage to give your life in service to the poor and to the nation.

The Ashram had this peace, calm and tranquility about it. Just walking around there was comforting to the soul. Reading some of the quotes, and the history, one is transported back in time. There were pictures of how people had written letters to Gandhiji with nothing more than "New Delhi" or "India" as the address. Even some saying "Wherever you are". There was a quote I liked that said "I would like the cultures of all the lands to blown as freely about my house as possible, but I refuse to be blown off my feet by any".

We sat down for a few moments, just taking in the experience, happy being there. Walking further down, we came to Gandhiji's residence, saw his neat room with a small chatai and a charkha. A person was demonstrating how the Charkha works. We tried our hand at it too! Very interesting how the thread just flowed out of a small ball of cotton.
I also went shopping in the city with one of my students! Girls day out of shopping, giggles, and street food. We went to a traditional Bandhni place, and went crazy looking at all sorts of colours and designs of tie and die dupattas. When you pull open the bandhni while it still has the threads tied in a design, and as the threads break, it is as if a billion flowers are popping up, white and yellow, as each intricate dot opens and the painstaking work of the die artist is revealed.

I have started to adore whatever little I have discovered about Gujrat - it's culture, language, food and art. I like the sound of the language - very soft and sweet. Humming around the city in an autorickshaw, I feel safe. Very few blaring billboard signs or big malls. All small shops, and lo and behold, all signs in Gujrati. It gives me a patriotic sort of feeling, and it shows that the people are proud of their language. My friend Megha gave me some interesting insight into the fact that the people here are the ultimate value shoppers, and that this is the toughest consumer market to enter. Makes perfect sense given the fact that this region produced entrepreneurs of the likes of Nirma's Patel, who gave HLL a good run at one point of time.

Small, simple memories such as this, come together to build a lifetime.

Saturday, January 29, 2011

College days again!

Wohi paanch rupaye ki chai, das rupaye ke raajma chawal, movie pe jaane ki excitement, smiling faces all around, bright eyes, eager minds, lots of laughter and endless fun... so wonderful being back on campus!

College fests are out of this world - there is this energy about them that is impossible to find outside of campus. It is only after attending one after all these years that I can see why I miss my campus, and what a wonderful feeling it is to be back.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Goa

There is something about Goa that lifts your spirit. I went for a weekend with my IIMC buddies. The plan was to celebrate the birthdays of two of my friends. Birthdays on the beach, what could be better!

All of us got together after years - maybe six since we graduated. And one thing is for sure ... friends are forever :), when you meet them, even though it is after many years, that connect is still there, that happiness and excitement of the college years, those fun memories, you are transported to a time when life was beautiful, innocent and carefree, no responsibilities and there was humour in every word and affection in every action. The beauty is that you relive those moments every time you get together, which is what makes friendship so wonderful.

Bagah beach was amazing... that vast expanse of ocean in front of me, the waves rolling by, the infinite stretch of the horizon. I love the feel of the water as the waves playfully touch my feet, and call out to me to come closer. A child excitedly builds her sand castle, and the kid in me wants to go and help too :). What is it about sand and mud that is so much fun to play with it... maybe the earthy feeling, makes you feel one with the ground beneath us. I love playing around in the sand, the soft, warm feeling beneath my feet. I walk into the waves, love the spray as it touches my face, I dive in, and the next thing I know, I am completely in the water, bobbing with the waves myself. The sun is about to set on the horizon, and the whole sky is turning a deep orange red. What a splash of colour. Breathtaking. God must be a painter. Words cannot describe the beauty of this place, that moment. As I walk along the beach, along the waves, they come touch me and go as if to tease me to come back in and play. I breathe in the fresh air, fill my lungs and feel rejuvenated all of a sudden. I thank God for just being there, for His creation, and for giving us the chance to be a part of it, appreciate it and enjoy the simple things in life. The sun bids goodbye slowly, leaving a pink and gold hue while it steps out and makes way for the night sky.

The night ... a beautiful starry sky... stars all around me, from one end of the horizon to the other. I try to make out the constellations. And as below, so beneath, the beach comes alive with twinkling candles, giving a delightful romantic feel. I could fall in love here.

Next morning and the rest of the gang arrives. The excitement is amazing :), endless chatter, loads to catch up on. Breakfast calls, and we walk the fresh morning roads to an awesome place called Infantaria. The food is great, and all we could ask for, topped off later with my favorite of all - Nariyal Paani! A packed day follows with playing on the beach, frisbee, throwball, lounging around on the sand and getting wet in the water. I have a decent tan by now.

The evening follows with a yummy dinner and the most awesome of all - Mago's Strawberry Vodkas! This is the first time I got to know what it feels like to have a "buzz" in your head. "Kuch to ho raha hai".

The next day we come back to have a sumptuous lunch at Zanzibar, followed by some super energetic jet skiing at top speed! All thanks to Vinay who got me on one. And then for the most breathtaking trip of all - Chapora fort.

Chapora fort - the backdrop in Dil chahta hai. As you climb up the fort, you spot the hues of the sunset. Higher and higher and finally on those old stone ledges, as you gaze down at the expanse of ocean in front of you, the spotless beauty of Vagator beach, the coconut trees swaying in the wind, you are on top of the world. Stand under a coconut tree and look up all the way to the top.. look at the coconuts so comfortably nestled between the leaves that reach out as if to shelter whats below, and all of a sudden you feel this comforting sense of being at one with nature. Trees have that effect on you, there is something very solid, unwavering, something that has stood the test of time, braved seasons and years and has matured into that being that is strong and tall and will protect you. The breeze is cool and refreshing that high up and I just don't want to leave the place, but its time to go, lest it gets dark.

And so comes the night again with its party and festive atmosphere, back to those strawberries - that Zanzibar has specially ordered for us, back to that candle lit beach, that soft sand, and I fall asleep listening to the sound of the waves. This is a holiday I will always remember!